AFRAID YOUR WRITING WON’T BE GOOD ENOUGH? 5 tips to help writers defeat self-doubt
INTRODUCTION
Do you want to write but you’re afraid of what the outcome would be? You’re not sure the quality of your writing would be good enough or what people’s responses would be. I want you to know that you’re not alone. Such feelings of self-doubt are in fact quite common among writers and other creative people, even accomplished ones. American writer and Pulitzer winner, Sylvia Plath, who helped build the genre of confessional poetry, once remarked that, “The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”
5 TIPS TO HELP WRITERS DEFEAT SELF-DOUBT
To combat self-doubt or the fear that your writing won’t be good enough, let’s tackle some of the reasons behind it.
1. Don’t be fazed because your vocabulary is narrow:
A modest word reservoir can be an impediment to good writing. If you try to write poetry, for instance, finding words to build your rhymes and produce the rhythm you want becomes very strenuous.
Should you then wait until you can boast of an extensive vocabulary? The answer is, “No.” You can grow your vocabulary by reading voraciously but except you start using the words you already know in writing, you may forget the meanings and proper usage of some of them after a while.
One sure way of building your vocabulary is by reading novels regularly, say, one or two per week. Steer clear of self-published novels that have not been properly edited. Many of these have been written by untrained, language-challenged writers who will damage, rather than elevate, your language. Find the African Writers’ Series and devour them. Some aspiring writers ignore those novels because they read a few of them for their O’levels. Many of them were written by award-winning authors whose excellent vocabulary and style can be your first writing coach.
Even after you develop a wide vocabulary, do not stop reading because:
• There are still many words for you to acquire.
• Language is dynamic. So you need to be abreast of the meanings of new words and the changes in how old words are used.
2. Don’t wait because your present writing skills are limited:
You may love to write but you have not been trained for it. You don’t know the techniques for storytelling or poetic writing. Rather than let that deter you, begin to write while acquiring those skills by reading excellent books on those subjects. Tackle one genre of writing at a time. If your main love is poetry, begin with that, but do not limit yourself to it in your studies. As American master of creative nonfiction, John McPhee, counsels, “Though a man be more prone and able for one kind of writing than another, yet he must exercise all.”
You will find that different forms of writing are related and limiting yourself to one will constrain your ability to excel in others. For example, elements of poetry like rhythm can occasionally be applied to make prose more readable and fiction writing techniques help in the writing of nonfictional works like feature stories and biographies.
Get formal training through schools and workshops if you can. Do not feel compelled to seek formal help though. As Nigeria’s award-winning novelist, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, once admitted, “Creative writing programmes are not very necessary. They just exist so that people like us can make a living.” She may have said this as a joke but you can actually educate yourself on writing with the right materials.
Formal training or not, you need a mentor or more to honestly appraise your work regularly and give you specific recommendations for improvement. Such mentoring is available in writer’s groups, some of which are online. The knowledge you will gain, which you will see reflected in your writing, will boost your confidence.
3. Don’t be awed by the competition:
Perhaps you’re comparing yourself with your more successful mates and other writers you imagine yourself to be in competition with. Stop that. Realise that first, your background and opportunities may not be the same as those the people you see as rivals have. Second, you have your own path in life according to God’s purpose for you. That some succeed sooner than you or have brilliant qualities should not terrify you into putting your dreams on hold.
Salent advice on this comes from Nigerian author, Nnedi Okorafor: “Don’t spend all your time obsessing over who wins what award. Write. And then edit. And edit again. Put in the work. Put in the time. Don’t try to get published too early. Don’t focus on making money or receiving praise.” Focus, she adds, on becoming the best writer you can be.
4. Don’t be scared of negative feedback:
Did you share your writing once and people brutally criticised it? This happens sometimes, especially online. That is why you should be careful of those you interact with online and the groups you join. It might surprise you to know that some of those who trashed your posts know very little about writing. In fact, some people entertain themselves by trolling and raining on other people’s parades, particularly on social media. Even if they were writing experts, do not let their thoughtlessness dampen your zeal.
If entering for contests or seeking publishing deals with the attendant rejections is fuelling your fears, hold your horses. You’re attracting unnecessary pain to yourself by putting the cart before the horse. But no matter how good you are, whenever you submit your work for professional evaluation in competitions and to publishers, be mentally prepared for bad news that might come. Most writers get a ton of rejections before they find a publisher willing to sign them up and many hardly win anything. The great American legal fiction writer, John Grisham, got 28 rejections before signing his first publishing contract.
5. Constantly pray and read God’s word:
This number applies to Christians. The Bible assures us that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us (Philippians 4:13) and knowing what God says about you all over the Scriptures imbues you with confidence to carry on your tasks.
Also, if God has called you to write, He will definitely release the grace for you to do so, your feelings of inadequacy notwithstanding. So, march on in faith for your success will not ultimately depend on your desire or efforts but on God’s mercy (Romans 9:16).
CONCLUSION
In your journey as a writer, you will grow and improve as you study and mature. But that process requires that as you feed by reading, you exercise your creative muscles by writing. Of course, your work won’t be perfect immediately, and maybe not for a long while. Yet, except you write, you won’t know where you are and what you still need to improve upon. And some of the responses you now dread are what you need to polish your craft.
Start small on your social media accounts. Welcome sincere and informed criticism. However, block trolls and those whose criticisms are not constructive. Keep learning but, most importantly, keep writing too.
Takeaway:
Do not let self-doubt stop you. Start writing now.
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What are your impressions about the contents of this post?
Is there any other reason why you or anyone you know might be afraid of writing?
Share in the comments for advice.
Thanks
Ummmmm, I expect a little more than thanks if you actually read the post.???
Since every writeup has a message that needs to be passed to the readers I would say that the writer needs to concentrate more on delivering such message. Even at that, to successfully convey a message, self confidence is required.
I totally subscribe to Nnedi Okorafor’s advice when she said, to focus on becoming the best writer you can be. We should not be intimidated by the works of marvelous writers that we lose the confidence to write. This is an advice to myself and other aspiring writers.
I agree. The part of Nnedi’s remarks that you cited was not a direct quote. Happy Easter in advance!
This article is really on point. I like writing, but always battle with “Self-doubt.” Ma, thanks for the encouragement. “We move.”
I find it very difficult to believe I can actually come up with something readable. Self-doubt is one problem I don’t know how to tackle and also being afraid of negative response each time I write. Thank you, ma, for throwing more light.
I wish you didn’t sound overwhelmed. If there’s any particular problem causing your self-doubt, do mention it and maybe we can come up with some advice that helps you deal with it. Otherwise, apply what you read here and you’ll be fine with time.
This post covered most aspects of the reasons why many aspiring writers do not write and how to tackle them. Thank you ma for this very helpful post
Glory to God and thank you for being one of the early birds on this.
I feel like I’m blessed amongst other people’s first encounter with trolls. The first piece I wrote on was criticised by my class mate, Anulika, she was sweet enough to commend my baby work and point out grammatical errors in it, while encouraging me to keep it up. Self doubt has never been too much of an issue to me, because I don’t write for approval, but so I can tell my story in a way that I can’t verbally.
Thanks, Onyedikachi. But your first sentence is unclear and I believe you meant “oral,” not “verbal.” Check the difference between the two. The only way you can tell a story in a non-verbal way is by sign language and I don’t think you mean that.
Wonderful piece. Before now, when I write and it is criticized I feel bad and may probably delete it. But after reading this article, I feel better and know that I can do better if I continue writing. Thanks Dr. and happy Easter in advance
I doubt myself a lot when I write because a good write-up should employ the use of elegance to make it look more professional. Now I know how to build up my vocabulary and be elegant in writing as well.
Thank you am for this piece
The content is really nice ☺️
This is really nice and helpful
My fears are very much highlighted in this piece. Thanks very much ma. I guess I would start writing more often.
I hope so. God’s grace!
I have also realized that the fear of failure has stopped people (read: me) from writing. It’s always a series of questions birthed from self doubt. Where do I go with this writing thing? What do I even know that I am writing about? What if I do not get my research 100% right? Do I even know what I am doing?
Then, the issue of criticism. What if people don’t like my writing? Is someone out there laughing at me? What if I get harshly worded feedback?
The more I grow, the more I ask myself, “what actually is the worst that can happen?” It’s all probably in your head. I actually hope I am able to write about the things I am passionate about soon. For everyone, the first step is to just START.
True, so START!
Self-motivation and confidence is essential for every writer. And also, don’t be discouraged by people’s opinion but see it as a stepping stone to becoming better.
Oh my!
My basic fears are number 1 and 3.
I’m scared about my vocabulary and competitors out there.
Any time an ideal thought registers in my head, boom! I thereof begin to battle with two voices.
First voice; “There’s nothing you can do about it”.
Second voice; “if you don’t grab this opportunity now, I don’t know when you will”.
Those are the two voices. Now the strange thing is rather than cling to the first voice, the second one always dominates.
The number of themes or titles or topics I have been writing in my diary since my SSS are outrageous and funny as it may sound, I don’t even know the day I’ll pick my pen and develop any because of the fear of who will read my write-up and their reactions.
My vocabulary is poor and gush, read people’s work then you’ll know mine will be a total disgrace….
Imagine if I’d started writing long ago, maybe by now I’d have been better. But for where?
Okay more practically, we now have the opportunity as undergraduates to write on therecordunn.com but I’m not so sure when I’ll start, for I become paralyzed at heart each time I login and see beautiful things people write. I’m challenged and I just conclude that maybe writing is not for me.
Perhaps talking is the best thing for me.
I pray I change this negative attitude soon.
I pray so too! Your writing isn’t too bad to begin with, going by your comments on this site. Don’t deprive yourself the joy of creating interesting pieces any longer.
I will keep giving it a try ma.
Before I forget; thank you so much for everything. This has really helped. I’m grateful ma.
You’re welcome. Glory to God!
This post is actually talking to me,I am always scared of writing because I don’t even know how to start.i think I really need to start from anywhere, thanks ma u are a huge blessing to me.
Believing in oneself is a key to writing, this write up will help to encourage young minds and other people who have been afraid to write.
Indeed self doubt is like a disease which deters individuals and reduces ones self confidence.
Avoid irrelevant criticism but rather keep writing even if you aren’t good enough.
Thank you very much ma for enlightening us 🙏
I really appreciate this piece Ma. It caught my attention because I am scared of my writing sometimes. Most times I’m scared of endings. How do you know when it’s time to end and whether that ending sounds good enough?
Once you’ve accomplished the purpose of the piece, writing more may ruin it. Readers often complain that they wish some of my stories were longer but each story meets its purpose. People can imagine what happened to the characters but the curtain must be drawn once they’ve served their purpose.
Great. I Love this post and I must confess, I learnt a lot.
Thank you Ma
This post really changed my mindset from negativity to positivity.
Thank you Ma.
This piece is one that that speaks to me, though I have moved past fear and being restricted to one writing but I battle with books to help me grow my writing skills.
What do you mean? You can’t find such books or the ones you’ve found are hard to understand?
I am yet to find books, that would teach me on how to diversify and make my writing better.
Thank you ma, this is so timely for people like me, one thing I learnt is that I can’t know where to improve if I don’t start writing.
Two of my major fears when it comes to writing are the fear of criticism and rejection and that’s why I don’t even bother to try but with these points I’m willing to give it a try. Thank you, Ma, for these tips. They’re really helpful.☺️
Wonderful 5 folds to access success in writing is assured if one embrace these guides … “Start from somewhere!” I got this as a motivation to ink my feather..
I have passion to write, but people always discouraged me, I am sure this post was made for me.
This is very helpful. Sharing this immediately. There’s this popular saying that says “Face your fears”. Anyone who truly wants to improve their writing skill must learn to do so.
Still struggling with mine. But I’m sure I’d definitely get better.
Thank you very much ma for this post. Seeing and identifying my fears, am ready to work on them and start the writing process with God’s help ?.
Thank you so much MA for these 5 points you highlighted.
I have always been afraid of writing ’cause I usually run out of words, but I believe with this I can overcome it.
Whenever I pick up a pen to write, I would be weakened because of the thoughts that maybe what I’m planning to write will not make sense. But I have come to learn to face my fears no matter what.
Thank you very much ma for all your efforts. God bless you
I have always been addicted to reading novels, so I tried writing my own novel as it has been one of my dreams. But my half finished novel was criticized by my friends, so I lost the courage to post my novel on Watt pad and on other writings. Thank you so much for this lesson, how I wish I’d read this in my high school years
These five tips really helped me alot. My greatest problem in writing is self doubt. I always doubt my ability. I always feel what if I did not get it the way I should or what if I fail. Again I always feel my vocabulary is not good enough.
This post changed my mindset from negativity to positivity, I can boldly say that I must face my fears. Thank you ma
Question
Ma, you mentioned reading novels as a way one can improve his or her vocabulary, won’t it be a sort of distraction to the student?
No, it is required. In the past, one way of knowing students is that they always carry and talk about big novels. Now with so much digital entertainment, the reading culture among students is poor and it’s reflecting in their ignorance of the meanings and usage of many words and thus poor writing.
It’s not only words that you learn when you read novels. You gain knowledge about different aspects of life, depending on what the various stories were about- the jobs of lawyers, doctors, construction workers, etc. You also learn how to write.
God bless you!
Thank you ma for the clarification, I so much appreciate
Tips 1and 2 really got me. I’m still in the process of overcoming though and reading Buchi Emecheta’s “Second Class Citizens” and how her heroine started writing has given me a bit of confidence.
I always felt I wasn’t all that great in writing, I never tried to put an effort into writing but this article made me realise that we all have to try ourselves in life for us to see what we have to offer.
I’m a victim of the aspect of negative feedback. I tried writing once but the feedback and responses I received demoralized me and I didn’t try writing again but after reading this article I have been motivated to pick up my pen once more.. Thanks ma for this
Wow, honestly, I really needed this. I’m grateful, its very helpful. Thanks for the inspiration and encouragement… I’m sure picking up my writing pen again, thank you ma’am
Thank you very much for this Ma,I really appreciate.Most times I have alot that I want to write about but I end up over emphasising and missing important points. At a point I felt things I write aren’t good enough as those my mates normally write. I decided to stop but after reading this I think I should start again.
Please ma how do I know and identify someone who can constructively criticize my write-ups?
One way is to make friends with someone on social media who writes well. Cheers!
I’ve always wanted to write something, a short story or a novel, but whatever I’ve written, I’m my only audience, i feel that my write ups are not good enough to share for criticism and appreciation.
I fall in your No 4 category, i hope to overcome my self doubt and improve on my writing too.
Wonderful advice ma
I used to be a writer. I stopped writing because I felt discouraged, I felt I wasn’t good enough to be a good writer. Thanks ma. I sure will go back again and find a good community of writers.
This has really encouraged me to write! Unnecessary criticism is just an issue; and also getting a good coach. I trust it’s well with God though.
I’m really blessed by this piece ma. Please, can one access books on this African writers series via online?
You can try, but they’re in the market and very cheap (although you need to look hard to see the original Heinemann Publishers’ print).
This is what I need to conquer my fears. I do have similar issues to the ones in this message, the thing is that I do write but I don’t let people see it or read it because of criticism. But through your message ma I think I can work my way through this problem thank you ma and God bless you and may he keep on giving you strength to find powerful keys and knowledge to be changing the lives of your students and people in Jesus name amen
This post has opened my eyes to a lot of things I am going through in terms of writing, of which self doubt is first. Sometimes self doubt stops you from writing when you haven’t tried it out yet. It comes with a feeling of inferiority complex that makes you look down on what you can offer as a writer. This has really armed me to fight this friendly enemy called self doubt and to move on no matter what. Thank you ma?
This post is really helpful to me, particularly.
Writing block has been a major limitation to me as a beginner in writing and this piece has helped to a large extent.
I have a question. Will finding writing peers improve me or stir up more fear as a result of competition?
Hi! This post is not about writer’s block.
With regards to your question, only you can answer it. If your attitude is to learn from your peers and improve one another, you won’t be daunted by what they do better than you. But if you allow your insecurity and ego to overwhelm you, you might react negatively to your better peers.
Noted ma.
Really inspiring Ma. I used to write when I was in secondary school. I had good reviews from people that read them but I stopped, not that I lost interest but I felt the storylines were what anybody could think of. I thought I wasn’t thinking broad enough,I compared my stories with that of my other friends who wrote big novels but with this I’m really moved to read books from good writers like you mentioned and try again. Thanks ma’am
Even when I can boast of an “okay” vocabulary, seeing the works of others really makes me ask myself “did you think you were a good writer?”. On the other hand, those absurd questions and negative thoughts sort of spur me to write better but when you present your work for criticism, damn….that’s where it becomes a problem. Some intend to be constructive in their criticism but end up being destructive and that undermines the writer.
How can one handle criticism?
I believe I’ve answered this question before. Next time, use special spelling for any colourful word you use here: d#mn.
This piece got me in terms of publication rejections and related problems. Thanks, ma, for the motivation on “steadfastness”.
I’ve never felt like writing was for me although I love to read and I’ve attempted writing some poems.
The mentality of “writing not being for me” could it have affected my progress in writing?
Rhetorical question.
Self-doubt is one of the major problems many of us are facing..I understood that reading inspiring novels can help to increase our vocabulary.I use to have that fear of what people will say about my writing and also comparing myself to others.But this writing made me to understand that everyone has his/her own path in life and we should be prepared to receive both good news and bad ones.
Wonderful piece….This post has really touched most of the reasons I stopped writing especially the aspect of criticisms and use of vocabulary. I so much fear people looking down on my writing and most times don’t know how well to use my vocabulary . I’m glad I read this post. Now I know that all these should only make me want to be a better writer and not doubt my ability to write well. Thank you ma and God bless
My greatest fear so far about writing is well captured here and am so well learnt that “your self thinking of inadequacy shouldn’t hinder one from putting ones pen to practice”
Sweetie, I didn’t use those words you put in inverted commas. When you paraphrase what someone says, don’t enclose the words in quotation marks. Have a great week!
The need to write perfectly is one thing that puts a lot of pressure on newbies but these tips are definitely helpful. Thank you for sharing
These tips correctly tackle most of the fears newbies face when writing. Thank you ma
I’m keeping myself from shouting gleefully now, hehe…
This is so good!
A product of keen observation and experience.
Each time I pick my pen, I sigh and drop it because I’m underwhelmed by my vocabulary, particularly with poetry where I need a perfect rhyme scheme.
And then of course, there is the fear of negative feedback and the unintended intimidation from seasoned writers whose works humble you.
I find Chimamanda Adichie’s comment on Creative Writing Classes very candid.
Many a time, I feel unequipped because I haven’t attended many classes on creative writing or even had a formal training on it. And this is a very discouraging feeling.
But coming from her, I now know I do not have to wait until I’ve ticked all the boxes before being confident enough to write. Not to imply of course that courses on creative writing are pointless.
Thank you, ma.
Amazing ma.
Before now I do find it difficult to write,but after going through this,I think I can come up with something nice. Appreciate
Thank you Ma for this wonderful write up. For me, it has always been the case of lack of confidence. No matter how I write, I end up thinking it’s not good enough. I guess it’s to work on that?
Reading extensively or voraciously can grow our vocabulary and put in writing will definitely make us best…. Since practice makes better.
Thanks for your wonderful teachings ma.
Its the part where writers should take time to polish their work by editing,proof reading and adjusting a few things for me. I feel the best works are not rushed and should be given ample time in creation process.But Ma, I do have a question. What happens when you are on contract work or youre expected to meet a deadline?
As you mature in your writing, you’ll notice that you can still deliver excellent work under pressure. You will just have to neglect some other things to meet the deadline.
“Such feelings of self doubt are in fact quite common among writers and other creative people, even accomplished ones” now I know that am not the only one suffering from self doubt. I think that with this particular encouragement from you I will be able “to grow my wings “thank you ma’am and God bless you!
Thanks so much ma.self confidence is indeed a big key to overcome fear
I feel very enlightened now.
Self doubt has been one of my greatest challenges but I know now that I will be able to overcome it and do better
I am encouraged with this. God bless ma
It is indeed helpful
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me; writing not excluded. I just need to know that if I have to be the best I have to learn and continue writing
Thank you Ma! I will keep writing
Good morning ma.
I’ve been facing this particular problem for a while now but with your few points I am motivated once again
Thanks ma!!
Have a great day.
I immensely acknowledge this piece of work ma. I am highly motivated…..
Thank you for this ma!.
The second point was indeed very helpful to me.Dont wait because your present writing skills are limited,it points out.I write stories and haven’t given writing poems a thought but after reading this piece, i decided to pick up my pen, brush up my vocabulary skills by reading voraciously and start writing some poems.I also put the last tip into practice.My walk with God is becoming strengthened every day.Thank you Ms. Ohaja for inspiring me through this writeup
Reading so many write-up online and good books, I will say is helping my vocabulary conversant, and self doubt is what should be avoided, switching one’s mind off competition of good writers one perceived.
Above all these, ‘G’ factor God will help one to overcome self doubt and become a better writer.
This post is talking directly to me. I am glad I read this post. The fear of criticism from people and even self-criticism has made me abandon my pen. Indeed, great writers do not achieve fame in a day, it takes perseverance and hard work to be a good writer. Thanks, ma.
This is really encouraging! Start somewhere and instead of seeing the accomplished writers as “co-competitors” learn from them. Thanks ma’am!
This particular post is talking to me. I written a lot and threw them away because i felt they were not good enough.
This wonderful. I remember back then in my secondary school I normally write but because of fear of errors I stopped but with this I might consider writing again.
Number five point got me ,constantly pray and read God’s word for more directions and guidance
I think number four has always been a problem to me
Thinking about what “they” will say or how “they” will view it
Thanks for this wonderful post ma.
I’ll make sure I make use of these tips.
Self doubt is a true enemy to success….
Thanks a lot for the tips
This write up has taught me that you can start from where you are to write, and with time, you attain expertise.
This is so encouraging.In our society self doubt or criticism makes people to lose focus in writing but with this tips on how to be good one can be able to write an article
My angle of writer’s block is quite weird in that I can come up with something at short notice, I however seldom write when not trying to meet a deadline, is there a way I can change that
Hello! Create a schedule and have accountability partners to help you stick to it. That might help.
Thank you! for that beautiful post. Like you said “write and then edit. And edit again, put in the work. Put in the time” very well said ma, I am motivated.
Read carefully, my dear! That was a quote from someone else.
To be honest ma, this post has aweken the dead/discouraged spirit in me towards writing and by God’s grace i will rise and face my fears..
Am grateful ma.
I think self-doubt can really push you away from what you want to achieve. Not just in writing, but in other aspects of life, we shouldn’t look down on ourselves.
Self doubt and fear of criticism form people are my major problems which discourage me from writing. It has come to an end by the help of this enlightenment. Thank you ma. I really appreciate your efforts.
This piece helped. I’ve always doubted myself. I only write as the spirit leads
I was scared of writing because I thought my vocabulary is not good enough. But with this , I know I can start writing and also read books that would help me improve my vocabulary.
Believing in oneself is a key to writing, this write up will help to encourage young minds and other people who have been afraid of writing.
God bless you ma
Self doubt is one of the most challenging hindrance to human development.
Your tips were inspiring
Thank you ma for encouraging and motivating us to write confidently.
One of the toughest act,in writing,is having confidence and believing in yourself. Great literary writers,like Chimamanda Adichie,Chinua Achebe,Wole Soyinka,and others who have achieved great feats in the literary world,started from the scratch. I remember reading,Achebe’s, “There was a country”-a biography about his life. He stated about his bestseller novel, ” Things Fall Apart”,that was rejected by so many British publishing houses and later on, a British woman accidentally stumbled on the manuscript. She was impressed and nudged its publishing. And today, “Things Fall Apart”, has been translated in more than 50 languages.
My whole point boils down to building confidence and having trust in yourself. Thank you so, Ma,for the inspiring piece.
The fear of the unknown can certainly rob one of the joy and satisfaction but we have to keep practicing to get to the top
Thank you very much ma for this piece.
I used to think I can be a very good writer, in fact, I used to write but when I see other people’s writing or show people my write up, I felt like writing wasn’t for me, that made me stop writing.
How can I deal with criticism ma?
Hi! Look at the answer to that question elsewhere on this thread.
Don’t waste your time thinking over the success of others, but always know that as others have succeed, don’t doubt your capability you also can do it.
I have learnt how to have more confidence in my writings, I normally used to be scare d of writing because i don’t know if its going to be good enough for my audience.with the help of this post I am confident I will be able to overcome self doubt and the fear of the unknown. Thank you and have a great day Ma.
I’m encouraged after reading this, ma. Thank you .
Wow I’m also scared to write not because I don’t know what to write but because I lack the confidence I need. But after reading this post, I’m sure my confidence boosted a little bit….thank you ma’am
Wow very insightful tips. Self confidence is key and don’t feel intimidated by other people’s work rather work on your self. Thank you ma
No.3 and 5 had great impact on me. It tells me to avoid comparison and to trust in God completely, He will always help me and never leave.
Doubts kills one’s ability not to do what he is able to do. With the help of this tips it will helps us to defeat self doubt.
Writing are sometimes difficult especially when you try to create your own aticle. This 5 tips serves as a guildline to help we aspiring writer boost out writing skill. Thanks!
What a great piece ma. My fears are stated right in the article. This just gave me more ideas and encouragement.
Thank you ma.
I always feel inferior when I compare my written works with that of other people. But with this post, I’ve learnt to believe in myself. You give me great hope ma, I’m grateful!
Thanks for this encouraging tips ma
I stopped writing for my blog because I always think my writings are not just good enough
I’ve learnt not to compare myself with others but just be myself. self doubt stop you from delivering because you will end up keeping great writings In the dark because for fear of criticism
Thanks ma for this post it’s really encouraging and am highly motivated.
My major fear while writing any piece is the fear of criticism and hate words. But this write up opened my eyes to what to expect. Thank you ma.
“Realise that first, your background and opportunities may not be the same as those the people you see as rivals have. Second, you have your own path in life according to God’s purpose for you. That some succeed sooner than you or have brilliant qualities should not terrify you into putting your dreams on hold.”- My take away. Thank you ma
I think this piece is for me because I always find myself contemplating on what the reactions of my write-up will be like but with this post I think my mindset has been upgraded and I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.thank u ma.
I think this piece is for me because I always find myself contemplating on what the reactions of my write-up will be like but with this post I think my mindset has been upgraded and I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.thank u ma.
Self confidence and determination are keys to effective writing and to sum it up we are to put God first.
The African writers series? i do neglect them a lot! i think i have learnt something really useful today.
Self doubt is common especially among beginners like myself and rejection will more than likely occur. Nos 3 and 4 touched me deeply because they are my constant worry. God bless you ma.
Self doubt, feedback i.e what people will say about my writing has been my main problem but with this tips I think am good to go.
I always tell people that the best way to learn how to do something is by getting involved in such a thing; in the process of doing it, they master the required prowess to excel in it. Writers should pick up courage and explore their writing skills.
I really want to appreciate you ma for this, honestly I’m guilty of all that you’ve mentioned above. I actually have ideas but how to relate it through writing is a very big problem for me. That part you mentioned Nnedi okorafor’s quote “Don’t spend all your time obsessing over who wins what award. Write. And then edith. And edith again. Put in the work. Put in the time. Don’t try to get published too early. Don’t focus on making money or receiving praise.” Focus she adds, on becoming the best writer you can be.
This quote really caught and also made to understand that am not in any competition with anybody.
Thanks once again ma’am, God will continually keep you and preserve you for us ma.
I can recall when I was much younger, and had many ideas in my head, I wanted to just pour them out but I realized that when I start writing, I’m lost of words, the right vocabulary elude me, I’ll be scared of getting a negative feedback as well as self doubt but whatever it was made me relent till date.
But with this writeup I know that My problem is fear and I hope and pray to amend it soonest.
Self doubt and fear of critisism is my Simplicity and brevity it is ma, thanks for teaching us that as a beginner, we should start with short sentences and proceed to longer ones….
Indeed, one should not look down on his or her abilities and whenever the going gets tougher, just take it to the Lord in prayer.
I think self doubt itself first needs to be eliminated.
And then active participation in what you want to do also helps.
Self-doubt is what is keeping great minds in the dark and making it seem they’re not able to write ‘Yet’. But the points that says ” not to be in a competition with anyone” And that becoming a renowned writer takes a step at a time clears every doubt and fear.
I always think about what they would say, or if my writing is good enough and it has made me almost give up on writing. Thank you ma for restoring my writing spirit.
I can recall when I was much younger, and had many ideas in my head, I wanted to just pour them out but I realized that when I start writing, I’m lost of words, the right vocabulary elude me, I’ll be scared of getting a negative feedback as well as self doubt but whatever it was made me relent till date.
But with this writeup I know that My problem is fear and I hope and pray to amend it soonest.
Moral lesson : ways to help me overcome self doubt and fear.
I’ve always wanted to write something, a short story or a novel, but fear of not writing well will always over shadow me but with this point I can start something. Thank you very much ma for this write up.
Most a times I doubt that my piece of writing won’t be appreciated, sometimes when I write and post on my Facebook page and I receive few likes and comments I feel embarrassed and discouraged so I delete it, or most times after reading what I have written I will not be encouraged to post it cause am scared of criticism, but after reading this am encouraged to accept corrections and negative feedbacks.
Honestly I have always loved writing, I find it very exciting to write but, like you said Ma, self-doubt. After writing my thoughts/ideas down, I sweep it under the rug because I feel it’s not good enough and it doesn’t measure up to the standards of what should be published. With this post, I have gotten the courage to put out my works and I have gotten a reachable Mentor as well. Thank You Ma!
I can recall when I was much younger, and had many ideas in my head, I wanted to just pour them out but I realized that when I start writing, I’m lost of words, the right vocabulary elude me, I’ll be scared of getting a negative feedback as well as self doubt but whatever it was made me relent till date.
But with this writeup I know that My problem is fear and I hope and pray to amend it soonest.
Nice piece ma. Indeed having self confidence is one of the attributes a beginner should possess because without this he or she would be weighed down by competition, criticism, etc.
Thank you ma for the tips writing has always been a passion of mind but I’ve been too insecure to put my work out but now I will be able to show it to the world.
Well said. I keep lot of my stories hidden in the darkest room of my phone because I’m always afraid it won’t meet readers’ expectations.
My biggest take home is don’t be scared of negative feedbacks. People can be mean especially online readers. This is a real booster for me. Thank you ma.
I’ve always wanted to be a writer but fear of not writing well will always grip me but with this points I think I will be able to start something. Thank you ma for this write-up.
Number 5 is very important
“If God has called you, He will definitely release the grace for you to do so”
I strongly believe this and I pray for God’s divine grace
Self-doubt is really bad and this post has helped very much because I usually feel like I’m not doing well when I see the works of others.
This has really inspired me to do better
Self doubt is one thing that can render someone’s positive thinking towards writing to nothing but they said center mindedness and determination can bring you good fortune.Thank you ma for this great tips.sometimes fear of what people may say about my writing do stop me from trying to write, am very grateful for this.
3. Don’t be awed by the competition, this words really caught my attention because its really a kind of fear for me personally for long now, not only in writing but in most aspects of life,but truly i have been challenged to come up hither…… very wonderful.
My greatest fear when writing has always been the fear of my write-up being mediocre. This article definitely helped boost my confidence as a writer.
“do not let self doubt stop you,start writing now”i love that.
Really helpful tips. Even those without self doubt still need to pray for wisdom to keep up and eventually perfect their craft.
This post really changed my mindset from negativity to positivity.thank you ma’am.
I have been writing of recent, and I still don’t find the confidence to post them. But I think this write-up has boosted my confidence. And I also learnt to be studious, reading other established writers’ work.
A very good article to help writers in doubt. Never compare your work with others as a just starting writer, writers should never write to compete or impress, lastly but most importantly put everything in prayer, ask God for help.
For the fact that one can start, language and skills should not be a barrier, less pressure and confidence is the major key despite you might have a lot of criticism, faith would make your write up better.
The strong competition among writers has been one of the reasons I shy away from writing. I might have beautiful imaginations but putting them in writing has been a major challenge. ‘Feed by reading and exercise your creative muscles by writing.’ These word really got to me. If I don’t exercise my writing ability,there no way people will read or know about my creative imaginations. And then the part where you talked about God releasing the grace for you to accomplish it if he has called you to write…. Ma what about persons who writing isn’t their sphere or calling?
How do you know it’s not your calling? And if you’re a Christian, why would you struggle to engage in something that’s not your calling?
This is to restore one’s confidence regards making a perfect write up…
I also picked a great point,where you mentioned Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie …I am so impressed and educated through this.
Thanks
I fear I’ll get criticized on my writing. Many critics and experts, yet little professionals. You’ve encouraged me to leave the criticism aside, and focus on my work
But ma what if writing is not just your thing. I like reading novels, books and articles but I rarely get inspired to write anything. Even if I eventually do when I start writing I stop halfway and doubt myself. But with these post I think I’ll pick up the pen and try conjuring something up.
Thank you so much for this, I’m not really interested in writing because I’m always scared of how it’s going to be like, but I will give it a try and see how it goes.
Thank you so much for this tips, I’m not really interested in writing because I’m always scared of how it will turn out. But I will give it a try and see how it goes.
Thank you ma for this post, I have always wanted to write but when asked why I have not started I say I am not as good as other people and I don’t have the right words. I would put all you have said into practice
Self-doubt is a big issue to a lot of writers . I am happy this post is helping to tackle this issue.
I always feel inferior when I compare my written works with that of other people. But with this post, I now believe more in my self.
You give me great hope Ma, I’m grateful!
I was once a good writer on Facebook which earned me much viewers but at a point I lost it all because I lost interest in writing and reading also I termed it not profitable but today I have realized my mistake and I shall go back to writing and reading.
Thank you ma’am for this. Having friends who will encourage you would also go a long way, they would be your back bone. And help you to get up your feet everytime you fall.
I usually compare myself with others, but while I was going through this tips…I found out that I have not come to do competition with anybody. God bless you ma for this
Last semester I was reading extensively on “Elements of journalistic writing and came across the term “formatting and Resource organization” as a challenge to effective writing. I just don’t understand the word “formatting” in this context and how it applies to resource organisation. Can you help?
Maybe you should check the meaning of the words to start with. It’s about how you present your content: margin size; line spacing; use of justification, centering, flushing left or right, bold or light face fonts, roman or italics, etc.
This article is tochable Dr and encouraging, it motivated me. I have desire to write,but always battle with Fear and self doubt.Thanks ma for throwing more light.
I’m glad I came across this article and got to read it. I struggle with number three a lot, but this article has changed my mindset. Thank you Ma.
I’m really motivated by these tips. Although I’m not really interested in writing but I’ve decided to give it a try after I read this. Thanks, ma’am!
Great decision ’cause you really can’t go very far in any area of Mass Comm. without good writing skills.
Self doubt has really made me give up on various articles, but reading this piece made me realize that we shouldn’t expect to be our our best in the beginning. We all have to start somewhere.
I’m being inspired to go pick-up my pen from where I dropped it.
Thank you ma.
You are blessed ma, this piece was really helpful.
Never to be afraid of new beginning because the journey of a thousand miles begins with a step.
I find this piece of writing very useful, especially for budding writers like myself. From this article, I’ve come to discover that so many factors, one of which is ‘fear of rejection’, can impede a writer in his writing journey, making him think less of himself. However, the good news is, when a writer is thrown the stones of rejection and all, instead of sulking and losing confidence, should use them as building blocks. Surprisingly, with time, an empire will be made out of that.
Notably though, one good way to combat and win this is by being mentally prepared for bad news each time one writes a piece and submits for review.
Thank you ma, for this educative piece.