This poem helps you answer the question above and similar questions like: “Who is the winner in love?” Is it the one that is most assertive or the one that hurts the other the most?” Modelled after the life of Jesus and his sacrificial love for us on the cross, the poem says a big “NO!” Read and find out who is the actual victor on the battleground of love.

GOD’S BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE!!! And remember to love like Jesus now and always.


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    I am a winner. Thank you

  • egbe ebere blessing

    hmmmm….so cool

  • Ozoguejiofor Uche Jacinta

    Love is a selfless act. We can do anything for love when it is true. It doesnt struggle or try to win all arguments. Its soothing,calm,caring and selfless.

  • Agwu Tochukwu Frank

    That is the winner, though he seems weak. Love is not all about insisting. It borders on sacrifice. Love overlooks and bears shame for the sake of the loved. I loved it.

  • Kat

    Wow. You’re right aunty. The winner can’t be the one whose words cut the most, can’t be the one who fights back with fists and blows but the one who is gentle and calm, who takes it all in stride and soothes the other’s heart. I don’t think silence or gentleness is weak at all. In fact, I think it’s the strongest and wisest action! That’s who a victor is, quiet but brave, gentle but strong. I love the poem aunty, and the graphics is so captivating. Simply beautiful!

  • Onyeka Stanley

    A victor is not by strength or oratory prowess but by character and attitude. The ability for him to make wise decisions and choices that will affect people positively.

  • Agnes

    Truly its the one who care the most, the one who is patient and loyal. This surmarises Gods love for humanity. Gods love is unequivocal toward us all.

  • Eze Nnenna

    This is God’s love.
    Jesus shed his blood for us.
    He loved us. He loves us.
    The love of God, stands all.

  • Mark Favour

    The winner in the battlefield of love is one who sees the strength and not the weakness of the one he/she loves. Jesus loved us so much that fact that we were still sinners did not stop him from paying the debt of sin. Even now, his love for us is everlasting. This kind of love cannot be contented with.

  • Heriet

    It winner is one who becomes strength in weakness, who give hope in hopelessness, who looks pass the flaws of the other, who loves unconditionally. All this are the definition of Christ love for us

  • Adiukwu Desire

    Love is sacrificial! Love doesn’t count how many times one wrongs other rather it forgives and forget. From DE students we love you Ma.

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